The Vault
Blog
Years of writing on relationships, conflict, and what it means to be a present man.
What To Do When Your Spouse Goes Silent On You
October 23, 2015
Their silence isn’t punishment. Your pursuit isn’t helping.
When Your Friend Cuts You Off
September 25, 2015
Being cut off hurts. But the lesson it’s pointing to is always about you.
What Happens When We Don’t Teach Boys About Sex
March 14, 2013
Boys don’t learn sexuality in a vacuum. They learn it from other boys — and that’s the problem.
Men: Learn How To Validate Your Woman’s Feelings
March 14, 2013
She doesn’t need you to fix it. She needs you to feel it with her.
Can A Relationship Work If One Partner Is Growing And The Other Isn’t?
March 10, 2013
Growth is lonely when you’re the only one moving. At some point, you have to decide if love is enough to stay still.