Private Coaching
You're Proud of What You've Built in the World. Let's Help You Feel the Same Pride at Home.
You love going to work. Soon you’ll love coming home just as much (so will she).
The Mirror
You've spent years solving hard problems. This one has you stumped.
You’re good at helping others, leading a team, closing a deal. But at home you keep getting a response you don’t expect and can’t seem to fix. You do more, provide more, show up more — and it’s still not landing the way you want it to.
That’s not a character flaw. It’s a skill gap. The approaches that work in business don’t work on your wife. Once you understand why — and learn what actually works here — this becomes a solvable problem. That’s what I do.
“Working with Jayson Gaddis has been the most impactful decision I’ve made for my relationships. Six months ago, my marriage was at a crossroads, despite all the personal development and growth work we’d done. Jayson’s insights and ability to challenge me helped me see my blind spots, reorganize my priorities, and reconnect deeply with my family.”
Mike Reid
Co-Founder, Dent Global
Two Tracks
Where do you sit right now?
Jayson works with two types of clients.
The Survival Track
Your marriage is at a crossroads.
You need a fast intervention to save your marriage, protect your assets, and prevent collateral damage to your children. You don’t need sympathy. You need a proven methodology, direct feedback, and someone who won’t waste your time.
The Mastery Track
You want deeper, stronger, better.
Things are “fine” at home, but you refuse to settle for a mediocre marriage. You want something awesome, where you both feel super connected, like a dream team that fuels your success rather than draining it — where your wife is your greatest asset, not your greatest source of friction.
“I came to Jayson with a desire to connect better with my 3 boys (9, 11, & 12) and understand why I get so triggered by some of their actions. In just a few months Jayson helped provide clarity for me to lead more with my heart (rather than my head), role played various scenarios to improve my ability to repair with my boys, and really helped me understand why I operate the way I do. I can now confidently connect with them and lead more often with calmness and curiosity rather than frustration and anger.“
John H.
Entrepreneur
Married since 2012
Father of 3 Boys
The Deepest Work
Not therapy. Not advice. Direct coaching that works at the pace of your life.
Therapy is too slow and too open-ended for where you are. You don’t need to process your childhood for two years. You need someone who has worked with hundreds of men in exactly your situation, who can see what you can’t see, and tell you directly what to do about it.
For 20 years I’ve worked with founders, CEOs, and high-performing married men on the one part of their life their success didn’t prepare them for. I’ll show you what actually moves the needle — and there are things you can do today.
Licensed Professional Counselor — 15+ years practice
Trained & certified coaches in 15+ countries
7-figure Founder, The Relationship School®
WSJ Bestselling Author — Getting to Zero
“Jayson Gaddis is my hero. He is my go-to resource for all things relationships, communications, and how I can show up better in my marriage. On top of that, he 100% walks the walk by cultivating an inspirational marriage and two exceptional children.“
Matt Hunter
Executive Coach | 2X Founder
What They Say
From the people who've done the work.
Jayson Gaddis is my hero. He is my go-to resource for all things relationships, communications, and how I can show up better in my marriage. On top of that, he 100% walks the walk by cultivating an inspirational marriage and two exceptional children.
Matt Hunter
Executive Coach | 2x Founder
Jayson is a solid man. I trust what he says, and I trust him with what I say. He speaks with brevity because every word carries the weight of ten. Men respect his wisdom because it’s delivered with humility and confidence. Jayson is a man I want in the front row of my life.
Jon Vroman
Founder, Front Row Dads
I have been close friends with Jayson Gaddis for over 20 years. His integrity is impeccable. Jayson’s passion for supporting people to achieve healthy relationships is unmatched. He has spent decades honing the craft of coaching folks to see possibilities in their lives. His potency is for people who are willing to work hard to get what they want.
Will Van Derveer, MD
Co-Founder, Integrative Psychiatry Institute & Integrative Psychiatry Centers
Jayson Gaddis has dedicated his life to understanding the dizzyingly complex, emotionally-charged territory of relationships. The most underrated superpower for a fulfilling life is knowing how to find connection through conflict. Jayson will give you that superpower.
Cory Muscara
Author, Stop Missing Your Life
The Details
What working together looks like.
I’ve spent two decades facilitating the hardest conversations on the planet. I’ve realized that for high-performers, the hardest person to be honest with is yourself.
- Only 2 spots available for new private clients this quarter.
Format
Private 1:1 coaching or 2.5-day in-person intensives in Boulder, CO
Duration
Typically 3, 6 or 12 months — calibrated to the depth of the work
Structure
Weekly or bi-weekly sessions. Shared Google doc. Telegram voice note support between sessions.
Investment
Discussed during your application interview. This is a significant investment for serious men only.
Availability
Jayson works with only a handful of private clients at a time.
Every engagement starts with a brief application to ensure mutual fit. No obligation, no pressure — just an honest conversation.
Ready?
Stop performing and looking for gold stars. Start showing up as a more present and embodied man at home.
“I began working with Jayson seeking closure and understanding after a failed relationship. He took me on a journey inward that led to a greater understanding of myself, and changed how I approach conflict and relationships. I’m glad to be on this path, and deeply grateful for his guidance.“
Andrew Dupee
Portfolio Manager